As far as I know, he continues to work on healing his own life and I have moved on with mine. But it's hard for me too, he calls me an asshole or a bitch pretty much every day, he is constantly gaslighting me telling me where I "really was" instead of at school or the store or whatever place I told him I was and actually was. Not for your partner's benefit, but for yours. You're Not Alone. I love her and I am definitely in for the long haul This is soul diminishing isn't it?!?!? Those of us with DID don't have the option of walking away from the illness.
It's understandable that you are hurt.
My boyfriend will tell you at least 6. Thank you. I've encountered similar situations with my girlfriend who has 18 alters of varying ages. Love Imgur? I've said the same things to him as you did. It explains so muc. It has been hard to find other significant others and there are times I have felt isolated from friends and family.