Are your behaviors towards him not adding to the pressures that has him acting out in such SELF destructive ways?? Its like he is having sex with these women and not me. I know he is using drugs and he has gotten is several car accidents and our auto insurance got canceled. Only in a movie, perhaps, but even if he was contrite, and fell at your feet seeking forgiveness, that would be purely reactive, and short lived. Then, we go over marriage in depth, so all your expectations can be realistic. Our clients are successful.
Additionally, most women catch their husband because they snooped; which will then become an issue, which distracts.
I found my husband on an online dating site
Sound words that I am taking to heart, thank you. My husband and I have been married 8 years but I feel like it never was a marriage. How could there not be any more. He feels betrayed, abused, and hopeless. Am considering stopping the sex and just be his wife in all other ways. I like the other women have been married 21years to a man that has LOTS of issues.