I disagree with this. It can result in them thinking that something is wrong with them and reduce self-esteem. It is absolutely true what people have said about the second time around and how happy they are, but it is also true that the divorce rate has risen tremendously among young couples. I was further shocked when much of that weekend was spent in the bedroom, completely at her initiative. For one thing, new relationships literally alter your brain chemistry.
The next year he transferred to a much-closer university, we got married the week after he graduated college, and we've now been together more than half my life.
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It is better that way because if the girl is busy or really would not consider it again, it is less awkward. I recently attended a chassunah where after 4 rounds of dating not a typo! It saved time! We dated for six months, at which point he realised the Ivy-league PhD program he just started was not going to be conducive to a relationship or really, his mental health. We've ghosted someone. If you have the confidence that there is something worth pursuing by all means go for it!